About a Man

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want
you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and
his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant
to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you
find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the
man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be
friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.Don't settle.If you
feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't
stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.The
only person you can control in a relationship is you.Avoid men
who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.He
didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you
any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from
his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something
bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything
*He will use it against you later.You cannot change a man's behaviour.
*Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important
  than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.

Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you
the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.You should
not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way
street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is
nothing cute  about baggage... deal with your issues before
pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to
COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where
you are,and you're always readily available to him - he takes it
for granted.Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a
man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything
that you need.
*Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
  Share this with other women... You'll make someone smile,
  another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to
appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to
forget them.